What do people genuinely look for when finding “the one” in a relationship?

What do people genuinely look for when finding “the one” in a relationship? It’s hard to tell because people build their own perceptions of what a soulmate should look like from past experiences or the experiences of others. There’s no right answer which makes it more confusing. There’s only time. In consistent conversations with friends regarding relationships, one piece of advice that seems to be unanimous is taking time. Time looks so different in every situation. It’s important to see what time looks and feels like for the partner you’re with. If time is being wasted, then what was the … Continue reading What do people genuinely look for when finding “the one” in a relationship?

Pray for America…Pray for the world…Pray for all humankind

There have been plenty of hashtags and messages circulating on social media regarding the disaster that is affecting Houston tremendously. It is always devastating when I hear news of the tragedies that strike our nation. Most days it’s even hard to turn on the news. Usually, people create hashtags and tell stories about their personal accounts of the destructions of our country and even our world. While it is important to stay abreast of current news and speak passion toward the issues, we should be consistently praying for this nation and the entire world. It’s not enough to #hashtag your thoughts. We … Continue reading Pray for America…Pray for the world…Pray for all humankind

Creating Dreamality

Personally, I’ve always tried to navigate through living in a dream world and actually facing the realities of life. For those who are like me, this struggle is consistent from day to day, through career building, romantic relationships, college classes, house hunting, and everything in between. It’s the balance between true “adulting” and the luxuries of seeing your vision board come to life and making dreams come true. Can it really be 50/50? Are there certain aspects of life that truly omit all elements of dreaming? To solve this would be pure genius, but I believe that people create their … Continue reading Creating Dreamality


Duality is such an intriguing concept. How can someone live in two different worlds and constantly struggle to find the balance of which world makes more sense? Even that didn’t make sense. What does is that duality is the certainty of the uncertain. It’s about living with two forces, both good and evil, that make us human. These forces influence our everyday walk, talk, feelings, and beliefs. It can either shape us or break us. It’s up to the individual to decide which force will be personified. Are you in the same form as you once were? Something’s different about … Continue reading Duality

2017: Reflect and Evolve 👍

I have been in deep reflection about the ups and downs of what 2016 has come with. The ups were extremely high; I was feeling like everything I have worked for is beginning to make sense. Finishing school and moving on to graduate school was thrilling for me. It was also nerve wrecking because I would be surrounded by tough and buff academic powerhouses. It was intimidating to think about. I had to tell myself that I’m here for a reason. It’s no coincidence. God is obviously working in my life. For any student, we have to remind ourselves that … Continue reading 2017: Reflect and Evolve 👍